有人是羞怯的，爱情摆在面前也会自我否定，认为是自己一厢情愿，万不敢迈出第一步，之所以养狗，是因为狗代表服从，可以从宠物的服从中找到安全感，和这种人恋爱，你要一点一点把她的心化开；有人从奥斯汀的小说中受到严谨的道德规训，充满了情感陪伴的各种渴求，偏偏相往对象不解风情，婚姻似乎走进了死胡同，怎么办，小说成了精神互动的良媒，读一读她喜欢的小说，会发现另一个内心世界。有人遭受孤独，也有人乐于孤独。简奥斯汀是女性，但作品并非女性小说，仅仅拥有女性读者。导演说，她写的是普遍的人性，情感交往中的冲动，悔恨，骄傲，偏见，是每个人都会使用的武器，当我们明白这些武器都是对方进攻、防御、自我保护的方式，我们会知道爱情的结局可以是皆大欢喜，因为大家目标一致。这个我是没异议的。这是关于遇真爱而后遭背叛因为舍不得真爱所以通过放弃自己一切而独自流浪去寻找自己的电影，有些人，到了某个节点，遇到某些clue，他的人生注定转向，与既往的自己背道而驰，独自离去，一骑绝尘！说自己从不思考人生的人都思考到尽头了吧？Life is beautiful. Really, it is. Full of beauty and illusions. Life is great. Without it, you'd be dead..more like this mass of ideas and thoughts that you have and just have to put them out there. I don't do too much soul-searching or self-analysis. I just enjoy making things.“Everything has to have some kind of a point for people to breathe easy. What's the point of life? I have no clue, but sometimes there are things that just attract us and pull us in a certain way.”Cecilia and Emma were tween-age BFFs who were going to grow old together and never let anything come between them, until Alex arrived on the scene. Twelve years later, Cecilia is a successful social media influencer living the dream of an independent, modern millennial woman... until she runs into Emma for the first time in over a decade. Emma invites Cecilia away on her bachelorette weekend at a remote cabin in the mountains, where Alex proceeds to make Cecilia’s weekend a living hell. #triggered